Anonymous:
I have recently started to have a crush on a guy in my class. I really like him, and I think he likes me too. Problem is, my best friend dated him. They only lasted a few weeks, and she now has a steady boyfriend. I really want to tell her about my feelings for him, but I'm unsure as to what I should do. Should I wait to see what happens, or just move on?
Always remember, best friends over boy friends! Tell your best friend what you feel for this guy and ask for permission. It’s better to take it to the next phase than always have the thought of what could’ve happened. Feel free to keep us updated & good luck!
~ Lia
Anonymous:
I hope I'm the first!! Anyways, so there's this guy I've been talking to but he 'likes it when I text him first' does this mean I should move on?
Don’t let something simple affect how you feel. At least for me, I don’t like to text the guy first because it makes me think that I’m bothering him. Try telling him and maybe he’s just shy. Feel free to keep us updated & good luck!
~ Lia
Anonymous:
People tell me I'm beautiful, likable, and I get along with a bunch of people. And A lot guys flirt with me. But I've only ever been asked out once, and been reject more times than I'd like to count. I don't know if its me..if there's something just so repulsive about me that just turns guys away from me, or if I'm just lied to. Because maybe I'm not even pretty, and everyone just knows I'm not confident, and tells me lies.
People can tell if someone is confident or not. I know for me as an individual, I like confident guys. Wouldn’t guys like the same? Boost up your confidence and see if you get any positive results. Maybe, the guys are not asking you out because they feel like you’re going to turn them down or their not good enough. Send them good vibes, if you like them, and hopefully they’ll figure it out. Start fresh! Feel free to keep us updated & good luck!
~ Lia
Anonymous:
I had a very brief affair with one of my friends 2 years ago. We've got a lot in common. I had gone to his place for about 3 days and what had happened between us had been very unexpected. We had made out the second night, we were drunk and the next night the same thing had happened without us being drunk again. He has a girlfriend and they've been going steady for so many years now, but the time we were together, he had taken a break and now he's back with her & I'm here still missing him.. :|
It’s best to stay out of trouble. Imagine you were the girl on the other side, how would you feel? Try to take a few days and figure out how you really feel about this guy and if ends up being the opposite of how you’re thinking, try shaking it off. Feel free to keep us updated & good luck!
~ Lia
Anonymous:
I'm still in love with my ex, but he's completely obsessed with this other girl. I told her to go for it because I want them to be together and happy but I can't help how much I care about him. I want to move on, I truly do and my feelings for him don't rule my life but I'd just like to get away from them. I'm not sure if I should wait for them to pass or for someone to make me care about them more than I care about him. I just haven't met anyone who makes me feel the way he does.
Maybe it’s time to let go. It may not be what you want to hear, but let’s face it. Try to slowly break apart your feelings for this guy but not your friendly relationship. It’s obvious that you care about him and if you just can’t let go, tell him how you feel. It may be hard, but it’s probably the best. Feel free to keep us updated & good luck!
~ Lia
Anonymous:
My boyfriend is obsessing over the fact that I can't lose myself with him. We've only been dating for 3 months. And I haven't lost myself because im not super comfortable with him. What should I do?
You should tell him exactly what you told me. Tell him that you need some time and that you aren’t super comfortable with him since it’s only been three months. If he doesn’t understand, it’s best to move on.
~ Lia
